I am a life-long feminist and I have a wonderful masculine partner. In a patriarchal society, which teaches that men are superior and women have to fit in with your needs, anyone saying otherwise is horrible and a bitch. No, we are not, we just expect you to self reflect on your own behavior and show up as a conscious human being. Some men are doing it, like my partner, who is not only not offended by my success and leadership, but he champions it, as I do his…