I wasn’t defending anyone, I was stating that a lot of white men, Asian men, Hispanic men can be toxic too. Just because a black man hurt you, doesn’t mean that every black man is like that. There are upstanding, caring people and there are jerks and players from every ethnicity. The fact that you had to make a comment about me blowing people, tells me you are also toxic, but I guess it’s easier to point fingers than work on your own wounding.