Just the fact that you attributed traditionally female traits of lowered self confidence and moodiness, demonstrates your active participation in patriarchy. I’ve worked in both a female dominated field and a male dominated field and by far, men were more emotionally reactive, less mature in their thinking and actions and created way more drama. Perhaps the issue isn’t that younger or older men are struggling to fit in, it’s that our culture has evolved and some didn’t choose to evolve with it…