Like most women, I've had plenty of 'learning' about the egos of so-called 'regular' men. Bosses, dating, the boys who used to cat call and touch my body without my permission in high school and college. The idea that patriarchy is only expressed by men who hold most of the wealth, is an invitation to look away from a lot of bad behavior or 'not me, I'm a good guy.' Literally, I've only met 4 men who were as kind and loving as they appeared to be, one of them is my husband. The rest? They felt themselves to be superior or to take what they wanted, because the fact that they didn't hold any power, made them want to take mine away...