My partner and I had a very difficult 2021 too, and are just now working to come back from an unexpected move, caregiving for an elderly family member, getting COVID and uncertain self-employment market (because potential clients seem to be holding tight to their finances right now, which makes sense). I’ve come to reframe this in that the two of us did the best we could with little it now social safety net. I wish you the best as you work your way back as well💚