Obviously you’ve never been a woman on a dating app. Most of us field some of the most toxic comments and come-ons from men that we just want to give up on finding a man who is willing to take the time to get to know us as a person, rather than as a hook-up.

Even just being on social media, which is not a dating app, I’ve had hundreds of dudes demanding my attention in the DMs. I think men are great, but most have been damaged by patriarchy ideals, that men are supposed to be dominant and aggressive. Nope and nope.

And, calling women feminazis, won’t get any guy anywhere, not even a convo. If you don’t believe and put into practice in your relationships that men and women are equal (not the same, but equal), it’s going to be a tough dating scene for you, because of your own biases and entitlement.

If you are gaining an awareness that perhaps you have been carrying some incel ideas, perhaps do some inner healing work around this girl who hurt you as a teenager, so you don’t project her behavior on All Women…