Perhaps that’s because the sexual power dynamic between men and women, to this day on average, is still skewed towards male desires, preferences and especially for many women in our world, forced, without consent or consideration.

Since women in many countries, including the US where I live, are still considered the property of a man, writing publicly about female desire and our sexual needs is still a radical act. One which brings defensiveness from guys like yourself, who could instead stop for a moment to consider another viewpoint and walk in our shoes.