Thank you for this perspective. Recently, my best friend ghosted me, just a few months after being the maid of honor in my wedding. I know she received a diagnosis, and a big change in her work schedule, two things that could be disruptive in her life. I've been working through all the feelings - shame that I did something to hurt her, anger that she couldn't at least tell me she needed to disconnect, sadness about the loss of our friendship and worry about her health. I sent texts and several short videos, asking what was wrong, but she hasn't viewed them. I am working on acceptance that most relationships will come to an end, at one time or another. I love and will adopt - assume positive intent!