You are certainly welcome to disagree, but since you are not a woman, you are simply projecting how you think we think. I never once in my life consciously said, I’m attractive so I’m going for the ‘bad’ guy first and will make those nice guys wait. Never crossed my mind because news flash, men are not the center of most women’s universe.

Actually, I kept going out with narcissistic men like my father, trying to heal that old wound, which I later realized was the pattern I needed to release. It had absolutely nothing at all to do with the particular men in my life and everything to do with my past trauma.

Perhaps, if you’ve not had the relationship with an attractive woman you wanted, it’s because you ascribed nasty motivations to us, instead of understanding how everyone plays out old family dynamics, there are thousands of psychological studies you can reference if you don’t believe me.

Some who think they are the good guy, really aren’t, because they haven’t done their inner work.

And, now that I am with a loving, kind, stable man, who by the way, makes less money than I do (not that I care), that blows apart your entire theory…